There is something terribly wrong with the notion that
changing one word in a ceremony can invalidate it. I get that the “ceremony” is a “sacrament” in
the Catholic Church, but seriously, there is nothing magical in words. The important element is the intent of the
heart.
Personally, I do not believe in infant baptism, if one is
relying on it for salvation. The infant
has no ability to understand what is happening.
The child is not old enough to really be a participant in the meaning of
the event. It can in truth be nothing
more that the parents expressing their desire to bring the child up in a way
that causes them to seek a relationship with God. That being the case, the change of one word
is pretty meaningless.
Yes, I have read that changing “I” to “we” is viewed as saying
that the community is doing the baptizing rather than Christ doing it. However,
as far as we know, Christ did not practice infant baptism when he lived here on
earth. He did put his stamp of approval
on adult baptism, having been baptized himself by John.
Christ sees into our hearts.
He knows the intent of the parent in the case of infant baptism. He knows if it is just for the sake of
tradition, or if it is heartfelt. He
knows that a few drops of water and some spoken words do not assure the child’s
salvation. When a parent commits to raising his/her child with a knowledge of
God, he/she should realize there are no guarantees. A child who has been baptized
as an infant and goes through First Communion can still make a choice as an
adult to reject everything he has been taught about God and the Church.
Christ also knows whether an adult is genuinely making a
public profession of faith through adult baptism. He is privy to our thoughts and intents. We cannot fool him with pasted on piety or
the repetition of specific words.
The real issue is whether we, at some point in our lives,
acknowledge that we are sinners in need of a Savior, and that Jesus Christ is
that Savior.
I have read that for those who were baptized incorrectly,
further sacraments…such as marriage…may also be invalidated. Now that is ridiculous.