Friday, September 12, 2025

Charlie Kirk

Before Charlie Kirk was killed, I had no knowledge about him.  I had never even heard of him, but I am not a young person on a college campus.  I am an eighty-year-old living in a retirement community most of the year.  Over the past 2 days, I have read about and seen news segments about Charlie Kirk.  I recognize that he is a polarizing figure.


It is interesting to me that people can look at the same individual and see two very different people.  One group sees him as a kind, thoughtful, intelligent man who had the ability to speak truth and engage in discussion.  The opposite camp sees him as mean and hateful.  How can this be the same person?


It appears to me that those who were in close personal relationships are the ones who see him as kind and thoughtful.  It is those who disagree with what he boldly proclaimed that see him as hateful.


I am not a MAGA person, although I do tend toward conservative viewpoints.  I agree with some Trump policies and not others.  I could refer you to a blog I wrote years ago in which I expressed horror that Trump was to be the Republican candidate, so obviously I would not be in total agreement with Kirk’s support of Trump, but I do believe that Kirk was a truth-teller.


When a person hears someone express that their lifestyle is wrong, sinful or immoral, they don’t want to hear it.  If they defiantly hold to their position, they become angry.  They perceive the truthteller as hateful.  Over the course of my life, I have had some experience with this.  I have at times been hated for telling the truth.  However, I can also think of someone who later thanked me for speaking the truth when no one else would.  It had made a difference in her life.


At the point where Kirk was shot, he had just been questioned about how many transgender individuals had been involved in mass shootings.  Someone has viewed his response as “flippant.”  That is not what I hear when I listen to the video.  He obviously could not have answered the question he was asked with a specific number.  After the follow-up question, he asked a question for clarification.  If this is what triggered the shot, the individual was just looking for an excuse to fire…which given the amount of preparation required was almost certainly the case.


I believe all human beings deserve compassion, and that includes transgender people.  But we need to be honest, that transgenderism is harmful to the people who are practicing this lifestyle.  Promoting it and normalizing it is not helpful to anyone.  I do not believe that suicide rates are higher among transgenders because they are not accepted by society.  I believe they cannot accept themselves.  When we hate ourselves, the hatred bubbles over to others.


Our nation is being torn in two by opposing viewpoints.  The answer to this is not violence.  I am appalled by calls for civil war.  We cannot answer violence with violence, but I do fear for what may happen.  Our society is on a wrong path.  Things I believe to be truth are being called “hate speech.”   Most conservatives have tolerated angry rhetoric, because we live in a country where we are supposed to have free speech.  Apparently, conservatives are not granted the same privilege.


“For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine.  Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear.  They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths.  But you, keep your head in all situations…”  II Timothy 4:3-5